NEON MS SMILE 
**LIVING WITH MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS**
**THIS IS WHY MY MOM IS THE BEST**
**SHE SHOULD BE MOTHER OF EVERY YEAR**
MY SCHOOL PROJECT WAS ** WHAT WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE WOULD YOU NOMINATE FOR AN AWARD AND WHY ??
THIS IS LIFE WITH MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS--MY MOTHER LIVE'S WITH THIS AND STILL MANAGE'S TO DO EVERYTHING
*********BY TAMMY M.---3/06/2003**********
**I WOULD NOMINATE MY MOM FOR AN AWARD FOR MOTHER OF EVERY SINGLE YEAR BECAUSE SHE PUT'S UP WITH ME AND MY DAD , BECAUSE SHE CLEAN'S 24-7 , EVEN WHEN SHE IS SICK. SHE CLEAN'S THE LIVING ROOM, THE KITCHEN, SHE DOES THE LAUNDRY, HELP'S MY FATHER AND ME WITH OUR PROBLEM'S. COOK'S THE MEAL'S, PAY'S THE BILL'S, FIXE'S THE PLUMBING, FIXE'S THE CAR'S, MAKE'S ALL THE DOCTOR'S APPOINTMENT'S, GET'S ALL OUR PRESCRIPTION'S, GIVE'S US ALL OUR MEDICATION'S, KEEP'S LOG BOOK'S OF ALL OUR ILLNESS'S, DOCTOR VISIT'S, MEDICAL RECORD'S, MAKE'S SURE NO ONE MISSE'S APPOINTMENT'S, CLEAN'S THE YARD, CARE'S FOR OUR TWO PARROT'S, AND OUR COCATIEL, TAKE'S CARE OF OUR DOG, (HE ACTUALLY THINK'S SHE IS HIS MOM TOO''), HELP'S OUT MY OTHER SISTER'S WHENEVER THEY NEED HER--I HAVE SIX SISTER'S, A FEW FOSTER SISTER'S, A FEW ADOPTED SISTER'S AND BROTHER, SHE BABYSIT'S WHENEVER THEY NEED HER, THERE ARE ABOUT 15 GRANDCHILDREN ALL TOGETHER, AND MOM IS ALWAY'S THERE FOR THEM TOO, PLANT'S A VEGETABLE GARDEN EVERY SUMMER, SOMETIME DAD HAS TO EVEN PICK HER UP AND CARRY HER IN THE HOUSE THOUGH BECAUSE ONCE SHE GET'S DOWN ON THE GROUND, SHE HAS SO MUCH PAIN THAT SHE CAN'T STAND BACK UP, MAKE'S SPECIAL CLOTHE'S FOR ALL US KID'S AS SPECIAL GIFT'S, MAKE'S BLANKET'S, DOLL'S, PAINT'S, EVEN PAINT'S THE HOUSE AND CAR, SHE CAN BUILD ALMOST ANYTHING OUT OF WOOD, BUT SHE HAS TO WEAR TWO PAIR'S OF GLASSES CUZ OF BLINDNESS, AND SO VERY MUCH MORE, BUT MOST OF ALL, SHE HAS ENOUGH LOVE IN HER HEART FOR EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US, EVEN MY AUNT PAULA, AND UNCLE STEVE, SHE TRY'S TO HELP THEM TOO WHENEVER SHE CAN, THEY ALSO HELP US OUT ALOT, BUT I REALLY AND TRULY ADMIRE MY MOM. BUT YET SHE DOES SO MUCH MORE, SHE CARE'S WHEN NO ONE ELSE WILL. SHE LISTEN'S TO MY THOUGHT'S AND OPINION'S. I KNOW IN MY HEART THAT IF I HAVE A SECRET I CAN TELL HER ANYTHING. SHE IS LIKE THE BEST FRIEND I NEVER--EVER HAD. THAT'S WHY I LOVE HER SO MUCH !!
SHE LIVE'S HER LIFE FILLED WITH SO MUCH PAIN EVERYDAY. SHE HAS NEEDLE'S IN HER BONE'S, AND NEVER COMPLAIN'S, HER MEDICATION DOES NOT HELP VERY MUCH ANYMORE EITHER, BUT NOT MANY DOCTOR'S LIKE GIVING OUT PAIN MED'S, AND SHE SO DESPERATELY NEED'S THEM, YET SHE STILL DON'T COMPLAIN, SHE ONLY GET'S ABOUT THREE OUR FOUR HOUR'S OF SLEEP A NIGHT TOO BECAUSE OF THE SPASM'S AND THE SEVERE PAIN. I DID MY OWN RESEARCH FOR SCHOOL ABOUT MY MOM LIVING WITH MS, YOU CAN READ ALL OF WHAT I FOUND OUT BELOW. THERE IS SO MUCH MORE TOO, BUT YOU CAN LOOK UP THE MS SOCIETY ON THE WEB TO LEARN MORE. WELL HERE WE GO.
Coping with MS is a multistep process that requires a good

strategy and a strong support network of family and friends. In

this section of multiplesclerosis.com you will find information

on workplace issues, and learn about assistive devices that can

make day-to-day activities more manageable.The key in

continuing to live well following a diagnosis of MS is to take a

proactive approach to managing the disease. Managing MS

means carefully monitoring progression and actively managing

symptoms. Strict adherence to treatment protocols increases

the likelihood, and degree, of treatment effectiveness. Learn

the advantages of, and tips for, being consistent with treatment

compliance.In addition to medications described in detail in the

treatment section, there are many strategies and lifestyle

adjustments that can help people with MS manage their

symptoms. Some symptoms may be minor annoyances, while

others may be quite debilitating. Taking control and learning

more about management strategies is key to leading an

independent and healthy life.
It is often difficult to tell if symptoms are disease related,

treatment related, or something entirely unrelated to MS.

Keeping a daily diary can help uncover factors that trigger

symptoms, what makes them better, and what makes them

worse.
When a person with MS experiences new symptoms, or has a

recurrence of old ones lasting more then 24 hours, he or she is

experiencing an exacerbation, or attack. These symptoms vary

from person to person and from time to time in the same

person. No two patients have the same complaints and no one

develops all of the symptoms.
Pain can have many causes and take on many forms. Not all

pain, however, can be attributed to MS. People with MS still

have normal aches and pains of everyday life, including

headaches and joint pain. In people with MS, pain may be

caused by muscle spasms, cramps, and injury to sensory nerve

fibers. Some people experience excruciating facial pain on one

side that feels like a knife stab. Increased sensitivity to touch

and tight muscles can also cause pain.
Most people with MS have a pattern of attacks and remissions

throughout the course of their disease. Symptoms may go away

completely, leaving no residual effects, or partially, leaving

some degree of permanent damage. Sometimes the lesion

produces no symptoms at all because it is located in a relatively

insignificant region of the central nervous system.
Symptoms depend on the location of the MS lesions in the brain

and spinal cord.
The main areas of the central nervous system where MS lesions

are located include:

Cerebrum and cerebellum in the brain - Lesions located in this

area cause problems with balance, coordination, tremor, eye

movement, speaking, and comprehension.
Motor nerve tracts off the spinal cord - Lesions in this area are

responsible for muscle weakness, paralysis, uncontrolled

tightening of muscles, double vision, bladder problems, and

bowel problems.
Sensory nerve tracts off the spinal cord - Lesions in this area

may result in numbness, tingling, burning, pain, and problems

with knowing body position and perceiving vibration.
Optic Nerves - Lesions located in the optic nerves and other

visual pathways can result in a decrease in or loss of visual

acuity.
Spasticity
When the nerve pathways to muscles are disrupted, movement

can become stiff and slow. The control of movement relies on a

delicate balance between muscles contracting and relaxing. In

spasticity, there is an increase in muscle tone, with certain

muscle groups tending to be more affected than others. This is

an initial symptom in 30 to 40 percent of people diagnosed with

MS, and it occurs in 60 percent of people with progressive

disease.

People with this symptom complain of heaviness, stiffness, and

pain in the arms and legs. Muscles feel tight and limb

movements are slower. Over time, range of motion can be lost,

and spasms can also occur. It requires more work and energy to

walk and perform everyday activities.
Fatigue
Fatigue is the single most common complaint in people with MS

and is often one of the most debilitating of all possible

symptoms. It occurs in as many as 80 percent of people with MS

and interferes with most activities of daily living. Fatigue can

be associated with an increase in activity, but it can also appear

without cause. Although most people look normal during

episodes of fatigue, they in fact feel unusually exhausted.

Fatigue generally surfaces late in the afternoon when body and

outside temperatures rise. Fatigue often subsides in the

evening when temperatures fall. It can also occur after periods

of intense activity, such as after a long walk, and is often

relieved by a cooling down period and rest.

Sometimes, low energy in MS patients can be due to

depression, which needs to be treated differently than does

fatigue.
Vision Problems (optic neuritis)
Vision problems are caused by damage to the myelin

surrounding the nerves that supply the eyes (optic nerves). It is

the first symptom in 15 to 20 percent of people diagnosed with

MS. It rarely involves both eyes at the same time, but can

appear on one side followed by the other. Eye problems usually

begin with blurred vision, followed by vision loss in one spot.

Sometimes the entire field of vision is affected.

Common vision complaints include:

Dimming of vision
Sensitivity to light (photophobia)
Decrease in clear vision (visual acuity)
Poor light contrast
Problems distinguishing colors
Jerky eye movements (nystagmus)
Pain that is aggravated by eye movement
Some people experience vision problems after exercise, which

is caused by a sudden increase in body temperature (a type of

Uthoff's phenomenon). Vision usually returns to normal once

the body has cooled down.
It may take a while for vision to return to normal, if recovery

occurs. However, vision loss is usually mild and can return to

normal even though the damage to the optic nerve does not

heal completely. Damage to the optic nerve can occur alone or

in combination with other symptoms. It is not uncommon for

people to have one attack of optic neuritis and be diagnosed

with MS many years later. Twenty percent of people who have

vision problems develop a "definite" diagnosis of MS within two

years and 45 to 80 percent within 15 years.



Bowel Problems
Constipation is common in people with MS, and is often

aggravated when people with MS don't drink enough fluids in

an effort to avoid urine accidents. Leakage of stool (fecal

incontinence) and diarrhea are not usually reported. Hard

stools that are difficult to pass can cause pain and discomfort.

Constipation is easily controlled with medication, increasing

fluid intake, increasing fiber in the diet, and maintaining a

regular bowel schedule.
Bladder Problems
Bladder problems are commonly associated with MS. People

with MS may have to urinate frequently, often with little

warning. Some people find it hard to control the stop and start

of the urine stream (hesitation) or have difficulty emptying the

bladder completely (urinary retention). Some urine may

inadvertently leak out uncontrollably (incontinence). There is an

increased risk for urinary tract infections in people who are

unable to empty the bladder completely. In most cases urinary

problems can be controlled with medications. In rare cases the

urine must be removed manually using a small tube inserted

directly into the bladder (catheter).


Balance and Coordination
Problems with walking (gait) and balance are common in people

with MS. It is the first sign of the disease in 13 percent of

people diagnosed with MS. About half of people with

progressive disease report shaky movements, unsteady gait or

intention tremors, or uncontrollable shaking when trying to

touch a target. Muscle weakness, numbness, dizziness, and

vision problems can all contribute to problems with balance and

coordination.
People with balance problems may or may not have dizziness

(vertigo). Sometimes people become dizzy when they change

their position, such as when first standing up. Such episodes of

dizziness may make people with MS feel nauseated or cause

them to fall. Balance problems without dizziness tend to be

more constant, causing people with MS to sway or stagger while

walking.

Coordination problems and shaking tremors may affect the

hands or feet, causing clumsiness. Specialized walking aids

(assisted devices) may be needed when simple tasks, such as

walking heel to toe, become difficult.


Psychological Effects
Cognitive and emotional changes may be related to the stress

of being ill or the direct result of lesions located in thinking

areas of the brain. More then half of all patients with MS

experience changes in thinking, memory loss, difficulty in

processing information, and mood swings. Forty percent of

people diagnosed with MS report mild problems, and 10

percent, severe problems. Many physicians inexperienced in

diagnosing MS often dismiss cognitive and emotional symptoms

as "psychological," and this is more likely to happen to women

then men. But clearly, cognitive problems frequently occur in

MS patients as a result of brain lesions.
*****MOM,, I LOVE YOU FOR BEING YOU,,****
WITH ALL MY LOVE,,, TAMMY''''

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www.nationalmssociety.org.